Hello fellow Kinksters and Kink-curious folks!

We’re so glad that you’re here.

We created Wholistic Kink as a way for people to learn, connect, talk about, and experience guided sessions and performances that explore the intersection of kink, spirituality, and wholeness.

We have both, individually and together, experienced profound and lasting growth, healing, and immense joy through consciously engaging with our humanness, power, eros, and playfulness in the context of kink exploration. We’ve found that conscious kink has increased our ability to connect with our full spectrum of sensations, emotions, and internal resources and gifts, with more humor, lightness, depth, and somatic integration.

We have a combined 20 plus years of experience in the personal and professional realms of kink exploration and, concurrently, a shared commitment to our respective, long-time spiritual practices.

Approaching kink from a spiritual perspective has opened us to the realms of magic, mysticism and metaphor, and has deepened our capacity to apply kink practices and scenes in service to becoming more whole, loving, self accepting, and conscious about right use of power.

Approaching spiritual practices with a creative, irreverent, kinky lens, has supported us to contextualize, laugh at, and ultimately feel more lighthearted as we integrate aspects of self (especially marginalized ones), specifically in the realm of sexuality and shadow work.

In short, the intersection of these worlds has helped us to simultaneously take ourselves less seriously, while reverently honoring the innate “ok”ness of who we are. Creating consensual containers - playgrounds if you will - for different parts of us to express themselves, has enabled us to walk in the world with more access to our gifts, our power, and our ability to create fun and beauty with the materials and experiences of our lives.

We don’t need to understand or share every kink or desire with you to tell you that, unequivocally, we are celebrating the fuck out of your creativity. We are honored by your willingness to let us into the beautiful mystery of how you, uniquely, make art out of the strangest, most inexplicable aspects of being a human on a very strange and mysterious planet.

And we’re excited to share with you how we, in our unique ways, do the same.

With love, leather, and ample lubrication,