PROVIDERS

You can book our providers privately through their own businesses or you can use our booking form to request them in whichever services you hire us for.

  • After nearly two decades of working and playing the realms of transformation, personal growth, altered states of consciousness, and traditional healing arts, I found my way to conscious kink as a framework for personal development, empowerment, healing, pleasure and FUN.

    If you had asked me 10 years ago if I would have a thriving career as a professional dominatrix, kink educator, and mentor to aspiring kink professionals, I would not have believed you. And yet, within 6 months of stepping across the threshold of this potent and ancient role, I knew my soul had found a calling.

    Conscious kink, or as we call our particular approach, Wholistic Kink, is an amalgamation of BDSM and kink with a plethora of healing and expressive arts modalities. It is the most expansive and all encompassing container I have found to encounter and reclaim necessary parts of my own whole self, with an attitude of curiosity, play, and radical acceptance.

    To learn more about my education and experience, visit the About section of my Sovereignty and Intimacy Coaching website:

    Gold Soul Process

    To book a virtual or in person session, including kink consultations, deep dive kink sessions, industry professional mentorship sessions, or private workshops and events, please use the booking form and indicate “Ashley” in the drop down menu.

  • I have over 10 years of experience in the realms of opening relating, lifestyle kink exploration and recovery from alcoholism/co-dependency and the spiritual new age waters. I now have a wealth of experience, knowledge and skills to support people on their path.

    I am a bridge between many worlds that don’t always cross over and it’s my greatest honor to be the person who supports the separation in the culture of the communities to start to come together. This all starts within self exploration and self love. That is ultimately what I support whether that’s 1:1 or through publicly speaking about my experience, strength and hope.

    Recovery, authentic creative expression and kink have been the three pillars to my own healing and it's my honor to educate, share stories and empower people through these topics. Unwinding shame, authentically being who you are without reserve and communicating to yourself and others how you choose to live your life are a few of the ways I support the collective.

    As your confidante, cheerleader, and guide, I stand beside you as you dance with the present, heal the past, and embrace the future.

    To book a session with me please fill out the form on my website.

  • Hi, Im KJ.

    A real, live queer human who enjoys giving people experiences they've always been curious about and never had the courage to ask for... until now.

    Want me all to yourself?

    I provide 1:1 experiences for those wanting a safe, welcoming way to explore holistic sub space.

    I specialize in working with people emerging from long monogamous relationships who are ready to bust loose!

    My commitment is to be a safe, caring and respectful place for you to explore your innocence, dignity and curiosities

    You can expect lots of joy, flow-states like you wouldn't believe, and the freedom to truly express yourself with an open-minded person who encourages your unique expression.

    Looking for a soulful friend for you and your partner to get to know together?

    I come with years of experience working with couples of ALL orientations to deepen their relationship with themselves, connect with a higher power and have loads of fun.

    VISIT KJ’S WEBSITE